Human beings naturally long to have things that are beyond their reach (strange huh?) and this applies even in relationships.
When a relationship goes on and on without the couple involved bothering to keep the sparks flying, such a relationship is gradually dying and will eventually die one day. It means the relationship or the complacent partner has become comfortable and settled into a rut in the relationship. It takes been dumped for such a person to realize what has been lost and to know that they have been together and yet apart. It takes such relationship to break before the one that is dumped will realize that its over and begins to run around to mend the broken relationship. If you are in this situation, all hope is not lost, there are solutions around the corner; author T W Jackson stated in his book The Magic of Making Up some techniques (some consider his techniques controversial), which can be employed to mend a broken relationship and win back the love of your ex.
One of the techniques of T W Jackson is where the one who is dumped agrees to the break up and even goes as far as saying that he or she has been pondering on taking that step of action too. The person then walks away as if there is no big deal about the break up and creating the impression that it is the best step for all concerned to take; whereas what he or she is actually doing is getting the partner to remember about the relationship, when it was sizzling. When the tables are turned in this manner what happens to the relationship? How does this technique work? Remember what was mentioned earlier about human nature- longing for what is out of reach? In this technique, both parties to the break up will both long for each other. By agreeing to walking away, no whining, wringing of hands, crying and the like, the one that would have been dumped will create the sense of loss he or she is feeling in the ex thereby turning the situation in his or her favor. Two things may result from using this technique- one is that the one who initiated the dumping may get angry because of the partner’s ‘nonchalant’ reaction to the news causing a bruised ego or it could cause him or her to respect the ex for not reacting to the break up like a wimp or a crybaby. Though many people dislike or are skeptical about T W Jackson’s techniques, his techniques are different and therefore refreshing to consider unlike the techniques that have been touted by most people. He believes that if the partner who is dumped can behave real serious and not give it away that it is a sort of game for the technique to work; he said it has been proven to work and people can testify to its efficacy.